By The End Of This Program You Will

Who's Your Pleasure Guide?

I’m Sharon Melnick, PhD. As a business psychologist, I’ve coached and trained over 40,000 women around the world – Fortune 500 executives, rising leaders, start-up Founders, non-profit mission Moms, and retirees ready to refind their joy.

My work is informed by 10 years of psychology research at Harvard Medical School. I’ve spoken at over 300 conferences around the world, including for West Point women, at the White House, and the United Nations.

In other words, I legit know how to guide women to be ‘in their power’. I’ve written THE bestselling book on it, called In Your Power: React Less, Regain Control, Raise Others, as well as one titled Success under Stress.

So…I can help you be confident, influence difficult people to cooperate with you, and achieve the next level in your career.

BUT!!!

My REAL street cred to offer this program is that for decades I was a pleasure miser. 

I was “here to make a difference”, joy was a luxury for other women. C’mon, what made me happy was to make other people happy! Right?

Thinking about having the experience of deliciousness in my own life - that was foreign. And forbidden by how I had been conditioned.

You would not choose to live  inside my head! Even if I made time for myself my mind would be filled with ‘to do’s. I’d judge myself. I’d say yes when I wanted to say no and then resent others, and wouldn’t ‘put myself out there’ if I felt insecure.

This of course led me to isolate when I felt down, and not take true care of myself or find delight in my life.

As a human, I still feel these ways sometimes. It’s just that now I'm certified as a Pleasure Coach - and have tons of tools that can get me out of a funk within seconds, or minutes. And not just out of it and back to neutral, but out of it to the point of being playful, feeling sexy, and having fun ‘no matter what.’

Now when we meet you will see the twinkle in my eye. I’m earning more with less effort, and having more fun than ever! It overflows so I can lift other people with my energy.

And I'm offering this program because I want you to have ALL this too…..

Here’s how you’ll learn to Flirt Your Way Through The Day.

Week 1: Pleasure Research: A whole new way of living… 

You will launch your new approach to life, one of “Pleasure Research”. Your everyday experiences become a lab for how to increase joy, ease, and pleasure in your life.

Explore new ways to experience pleasure throughout your day without needing more hours in the day or adding more items to your to-do list. 

You'll uncover, claim, and list the desires you want for your life - the big ones you dare to dream, and the everyday pleasures like what song you want to dance to.  Ticking off your 'to do' list has never put a smile on your face like this will!

Week 2: From Controlled to Carefree: Get Out of your Head and Into your Body

You’ll explore all “88 keys of your emotional piano”, from your inner beauty to your inner bitch to your inner Beyonce. You’ll unburden yourself from the emotions that bog you down, so you’ll have space to fill yourself back up and live a ‘turned-on’ life.  Within the first 5 minutes you'll already feel lighter, and more connected to yourself.  You'll learn to 'Shake it Off" as Taylor Swift suggests! 

Week 3: From  Reactive to Radiant: Release the Crap in Your Head So you Feel Playful

We are going to ‘Container Store’ your head and clean out all those emotional reactions and inhibitions. You're going to kiss goodbye your judgements, worries, and nervousness. You won't allow them to get in the way of your playful new way of living. 

You'll be amazed how quickly you can get out of a funk and be someone who's ready for FUN!.  

Week 4: Game on! Learn to Flirt Your Way Through the Day

Now you're ready to bring a little flirtatiousness into your day.  You will learn how to 'enjoy yourself in the presence of another' and bring more flair and ‘joie de vivre’ into your everyday world.  Learn when, where, why, and how of flirting your way through the day. 

You’ll learn how to ask for what you want - and get it, from the boardroom to the bedroom

Week 5: Instant Magnetism

I’m not going to give away what you'll learn this week... I want you to be on the edge of your seat with anticipation and have it be a memorable surprise ;-)  But… I will share this:  if something icky happens on a zoom call and I have 60 seconds before the next meeting to get into a state where I feel the most lit up, sexy, powerful, and playful version of myself - I'll do THIS.......   You will be able to use it with a spouse, a date, a funder, or your girlfriends to spice up any situation that’s heading south, or towards snoresville. 

Week 6: Balancing the Masculine and the Feminine

You will learn to blend your “masculine” results-oriented energy with the dormant feminine power inside you.   

In this final week, you will have a chance to demonstrate all you have learned and your new way of walking through the world.  

You might find you dig that pair of glitter heels out of the closet and sashay through a night on the town...

Week 7:  One Month Follow Up: Celebrating the New You

We'll reconnect after 30 days so we can soak up all the ways you've been practicing Pleasure Research and fulfilling your desires.  I'll help you stay in your flow and making Flirting Your Way Through the Day your reality every day. 

Enter the New Year with a new way...